Saturday, May 8, 2010
Friday, May 7, 2010
-QUICKIES-3
The Art Of The Quickie
There are few things in life more pleasurable than the quickie. Besides being efficient, this holy grail of sexual satisfaction combines adventure, danger, and quick-thinking, not to mention the fact that it’s an excellent way to pass the time between meetings, dinner courses or time zones. Luckily, all you need to master the art – and science – of the quickie is that all-star multitasking ability you hyped so much on your resume... and a few simple guidelines.
Do: Get her excited before you see her
Texts, emails, suggestive phone calls and casual innuendo make up the foundation upon which quickie success is built. Getting things done in five minutes or less doesn’t leave time for foreplay, but as we’ve learned, women are conditioned to expect some sort of preview for the main event. Neither of you know when or how the action will go down, so you can cover your bases and get her in a constant state of wanting you by taking every possible opportunity to keep her mind on sex. With you. At any moment.
Don’t: Schedule your session
The very essence of the quickie is spontaneity, so it’s not going to work if it’s an item on your daily to-do list. Planning ahead will kill it. Like a special ops ninja, you must be ready for everything at all times but have no set expectations.
Do: Think outside the bed
It’s almost sacrilegious to conduct your quickie in a place that you’d normally have sex, so focus on areas other than beds, couches and kitchen countertops. Desks, while cliché, provide ample playing space, but if you’re more creative (and flexible), then you can make any alcove or storage closet the ideal location for an impromptu encounter. When you enter a room, restaurant, alley, or vehicle, mentally map out all possible sex spots so you don’t waste valuable time nervously giggling and searching for a secluded area. That is not smooth.
Don’t: Forget about fixture placement
If you choose a location that involves protruding objects (ie, bathroom, broom closet, museum gallery), then it’s in your best interest to watch out for fixtures, appliances and sculptures holding spears. No matter how sexually adventurous you are, you’re probably not going to want to delve into the complicated world of foreign objects while trying to
successfully get yourself and your partner off in record time.
Do: Take ownership of the situation
The point of the quickie is instant, hot gratification, so this is no time to slow things down by thinking about what you or your partner are doing. Just submit to your pure animal instinct and the rest will fall into place. If you’re already getting it on with a time limit, then she’s not going to care who finishes first (in fact, she’s not really going to know if she finishes or not, because it’s all so fast and confusing and oh-my-god-what-if-my-aunt-walks-in-on-us-at-the-family-Christmas-party that it’s just going to feel good no matter what), so this is a prime opportunity to act like a caveman and have your way with her without fear of failure.
Don’t: Forget the under five/over two rule
Simply stated, shoot to keep things under five minutes (=economical use of your time) and over two minutes (=proof that you’re not trying to hide your lack of stamina). Know what you need to do to keep it going for a respectable amount of time, because in this case, ‘instant’ gratification should last slightly longer than its name implies.
Do: Act before you think
Quick thinking equals quick sex, so if opportunity presents itself, jump on her. Most girls secretly want to do illicit things with you in public places from time to time, so unless she’s saving herself for marriage or filed a restraining order against you, take the quickie where you can get it. It’s like eastern philosophy: you don’t necessarily find the quickie. The quickie actually finds you.
Don’t: Take yourself too seriously
Part of the fun of insane, illicit sex is acting out your fantasies without obsessing over what you’re doing or how you’re doing it. Getting into a role just makes everything more exciting, so don’t be afraid to take some creative liberties and convince yourself that you’re off to save the world from total annihilation… after you make an important, half-naked pit stop.
There are few things in life more pleasurable than the quickie. Besides being efficient, this holy grail of sexual satisfaction combines adventure, danger, and quick-thinking, not to mention the fact that it’s an excellent way to pass the time between meetings, dinner courses or time zones. Luckily, all you need to master the art – and science – of the quickie is that all-star multitasking ability you hyped so much on your resume... and a few simple guidelines.
Do: Get her excited before you see her
Texts, emails, suggestive phone calls and casual innuendo make up the foundation upon which quickie success is built. Getting things done in five minutes or less doesn’t leave time for foreplay, but as we’ve learned, women are conditioned to expect some sort of preview for the main event. Neither of you know when or how the action will go down, so you can cover your bases and get her in a constant state of wanting you by taking every possible opportunity to keep her mind on sex. With you. At any moment.
Don’t: Schedule your session
The very essence of the quickie is spontaneity, so it’s not going to work if it’s an item on your daily to-do list. Planning ahead will kill it. Like a special ops ninja, you must be ready for everything at all times but have no set expectations.
Do: Think outside the bed
It’s almost sacrilegious to conduct your quickie in a place that you’d normally have sex, so focus on areas other than beds, couches and kitchen countertops. Desks, while cliché, provide ample playing space, but if you’re more creative (and flexible), then you can make any alcove or storage closet the ideal location for an impromptu encounter. When you enter a room, restaurant, alley, or vehicle, mentally map out all possible sex spots so you don’t waste valuable time nervously giggling and searching for a secluded area. That is not smooth.
Don’t: Forget about fixture placement
If you choose a location that involves protruding objects (ie, bathroom, broom closet, museum gallery), then it’s in your best interest to watch out for fixtures, appliances and sculptures holding spears. No matter how sexually adventurous you are, you’re probably not going to want to delve into the complicated world of foreign objects while trying to
successfully get yourself and your partner off in record time.Do: Take ownership of the situation
The point of the quickie is instant, hot gratification, so this is no time to slow things down by thinking about what you or your partner are doing. Just submit to your pure animal instinct and the rest will fall into place. If you’re already getting it on with a time limit, then she’s not going to care who finishes first (in fact, she’s not really going to know if she finishes or not, because it’s all so fast and confusing and oh-my-god-what-if-my-aunt-walks-in-on-us-at-the-family-Christmas-party that it’s just going to feel good no matter what), so this is a prime opportunity to act like a caveman and have your way with her without fear of failure.
Don’t: Forget the under five/over two rule
Simply stated, shoot to keep things under five minutes (=economical use of your time) and over two minutes (=proof that you’re not trying to hide your lack of stamina). Know what you need to do to keep it going for a respectable amount of time, because in this case, ‘instant’ gratification should last slightly longer than its name implies.
Do: Act before you think
Quick thinking equals quick sex, so if opportunity presents itself, jump on her. Most girls secretly want to do illicit things with you in public places from time to time, so unless she’s saving herself for marriage or filed a restraining order against you, take the quickie where you can get it. It’s like eastern philosophy: you don’t necessarily find the quickie. The quickie actually finds you.
Don’t: Take yourself too seriously
Part of the fun of insane, illicit sex is acting out your fantasies without obsessing over what you’re doing or how you’re doing it. Getting into a role just makes everything more exciting, so don’t be afraid to take some creative liberties and convince yourself that you’re off to save the world from total annihilation… after you make an important, half-naked pit stop.
Thursday, May 6, 2010
Wednesday, May 5, 2010
SUENOS EROTICOS???
Los hombres y las mujeres tienen la misma cantidad de sueños eróticos aunque que sus fantasías sexuales son bien diferentes, asegura Antonio Zadra, profesor adjunto del departamento de psicología de la Universidad de Montreal en Canadá.Según el estudio, las mujeres tuvieron la misma cantidad de sueños eróticos que los hombres. Esto supone un cambio respecto a un estudio anterior de 1960 que concluyó que los hombres soñaban mucho más con sexo que las mujeres.
Esto, según los investigadores, puede suponer dos cosas: que ellas se sienten ahora más libres de hablar del tema, o que tienen más sueños eróticos tras la revolución sexual de los años 60.
Las mujeres que participaron en el estudio tendieron a tener el doble de sueños que involucran a famosos que los hombres. En los escenarios imaginarios de las mujeres solían participar actores como Brad Pitt o George Clooney, o el rockero Bono.Por su parte, el doble de los hombres tuvo sueños en los que compartían la cama con varias personas, en comparación con las mujeres. Amantes pasados y presentes aparecieron en el 20% de los sueños femeninos, y en sólo el 14% de los masculinos.
En sus mundos imaginarios, los hombres casi nunca tuvieron que poner sus egos en juego para intentar seducir a las mujeres. En el 90% de los casos soñados fueron las damas quienes dieron el primer paso.
"Las mujeres son las que toman la iniciativa, al menos en los sueños de estos hombres", dijo Zadra. Este patrón puede reflejar buena parte de las ilusiones, teniendo en cuenta las habituales reglas sociales en el mundo de la seducción y las citas, agregó Zadra.
Finalmente, a la hora de recordar sueños eróticos que tengan que ver con frustraciones sexuales, los dos géneros tienen historias muy distintas para contar. Las mujeres narraron escenarios en los que la emoción del encuentro pareció desaparecer por algo que ocurrió o por el ritmo impuesto por su pareja.
Para los hombres, el caso más habitual tuvo que ver con parejas que se negaron a participar con ellos de ciertas actividades o con planes de escapadas sexuales fracasados por algún motivo. "Tal vez sus demandas fueron poco realistas, incluso par sus personajes imaginarios", explicó Zadra.El estudio se basó en entrevistas con 109 mujeres y 64 hombres que registraron sus sueños durante un período de dos a cuatro semanas. Los voluntarios acumularon unos 3.500 sueños, de los cuales solo el 8% tenía contenido erótico. Zadra presentó los resultados de su análisis en Sleep 2007, la conferencia anual para científicos del sueño, investigadores y representantes de la industria, en Minneapolis.
Tuesday, May 4, 2010
Quickies-2
Pros and cons of the quickie, By Tanya Enberg, Sun Media
With a pinch of no-holds barred desire, great things can happen quickly, if you're willing to let them. Can you spare a minute?
Sometimes life calls for a quickie.
The alarm clock is buzzing, morning coffee brewing and a hectic, hair-pulling day lies ahead. You have less than a half hour to shower, eat, get dressed and out the door . . . and he's woken up with some serious tent action down under.
This, dear readers, calls for a quickie.
Why rush a good thing, you ask?
Because when in a time-pinch, this raw, animalistic ritual is an amazingly fun and effective way to release those happy, stress-busting chemicals and leave you with time to spare.
Bad news is, when it comes to quickie sex, gals -- even ones who love every blissful second of it -- may come out shortchanged in the "Big O" department. Fact is, when he's ready to call wrap and zip up, she's likely just beginning to warm up.
That said, a quickie can be mutually mind-blowing for you both. With a pinch of no-holds barred desire, great things can happen quickly, if you're willing to let them.
TAKE A POSITION:
You've long since mastered the Missionary. The T-Square and the Wheelbarrow are old hat. You've tested out the Kama Sutra's Suspended Congress and have done it "doggy-style" like it's going out of style.
But with some 600 documented sexual positions, you've likely still got a few to try.
Make the most of the quickie by test driving new moves rather than relying on the same old, go-to positions.
This is a great time to bend the body in ways you've only dreamed of and start looking at the "props" around you in a different light. Suddenly the kitchen table isn't just for serving up breakfast and the recliner starts getting more action than it does during the playoffs.
LOCATION ...
Unplanned sex in unexpected spots adds the kind of serious intensity that can rival even the hottest of porn-star scenarios.
But, before dropping your drawers in a darkened movie theatre, a little planning is advised. While some people get off on the risk of potentially being caught, the majority don't crave exhibitionist status.
One former boyfriend and I waited for a group of boaters to finish up lunch and leave so we could take advantage of having a daylight rendezvous against a massive rock surface in an area flourishing with trees and wildlife.
Sure, the slab of rock was a tad too hard, but it was a thrilling adventure nonetheless.
Choose your own location. Maybe an elevator or stairwell, in the back of the car or a restaurant washroom but, wherever it happens, allow your inner animal to roam wild.
THE ART OF THE QUICKIE:
You don't have to start off in the mood, but you will need to get there in a hurry. Understand that taking an instant gratification approach to sex won't always fly and sometimes you'll need to bust out your best seductive moves through touch, dirty talk, fantasy swapping, deep kissing, or any other technique that has proved successful in the past.
Quickies don't wait for the perfect moment. The moment is in the here and now, wherever and whenever that happens to be.
WHEN IT WORKS:
Let's face it, sometimes we're pulling our hair out trying to get everything done. With all our day-to-day juggling, our sex lives can take a major hit. When you just can't seem to find the time for leisurely lovemaking, a quick-hit may be the solution. Faster than brewing a pot of coffee (heck, you can do the deed while waiting for it to finish), squeezing in a short and sweet session will boost your mood, reduce stress, leave you feeling energized and help you reconnect. And, as an added bonus, there's barely any hard work involved.
BE BRAVE
Having a ravenous rendezvous won't always be perfect. You may not have run a comb through your hair, brushed your teeth, and might be feeling about as sexy as Britney Spears after her head-shaving rampage, but if you're able to allow your self-consciousness to slide for a minute or two (and, as Nike famously says, 'Just do it') it's well worth the pay off.
Note though: Quickies shouldn't replace your regular sex life, they should supplement it.
QUICKIE PITFALLS:
When getting in and out in a hurry, one major missing ingredient is romance. Having a quickie is kind of like diving right in for the chocolate cake before enjoying the main dish, but if you can accept that great romantic gestures and prolonged lead ups aren't essential for sex-on-the-fly, then get down and dirty.
The goal here isn't lovemaking, but even so, a quick fix can be intimate, meaningful and lust-filled (and it will help keep a smile on your face long afterwards)!
http://www.southernjourneys.co.za/
With a pinch of no-holds barred desire, great things can happen quickly, if you're willing to let them. Can you spare a minute?
Sometimes life calls for a quickie.
The alarm clock is buzzing, morning coffee brewing and a hectic, hair-pulling day lies ahead. You have less than a half hour to shower, eat, get dressed and out the door . . . and he's woken up with some serious tent action down under.
This, dear readers, calls for a quickie.Why rush a good thing, you ask?
Because when in a time-pinch, this raw, animalistic ritual is an amazingly fun and effective way to release those happy, stress-busting chemicals and leave you with time to spare.
Bad news is, when it comes to quickie sex, gals -- even ones who love every blissful second of it -- may come out shortchanged in the "Big O" department. Fact is, when he's ready to call wrap and zip up, she's likely just beginning to warm up.
That said, a quickie can be mutually mind-blowing for you both. With a pinch of no-holds barred desire, great things can happen quickly, if you're willing to let them.
TAKE A POSITION:
You've long since mastered the Missionary. The T-Square and the Wheelbarrow are old hat. You've tested out the Kama Sutra's Suspended Congress and have done it "doggy-style" like it's going out of style.
But with some 600 documented sexual positions, you've likely still got a few to try.
Make the most of the quickie by test driving new moves rather than relying on the same old, go-to positions.
This is a great time to bend the body in ways you've only dreamed of and start looking at the "props" around you in a different light. Suddenly the kitchen table isn't just for serving up breakfast and the recliner starts getting more action than it does during the playoffs.
LOCATION ...
Unplanned sex in unexpected spots adds the kind of serious intensity that can rival even the hottest of porn-star scenarios.
But, before dropping your drawers in a darkened movie theatre, a little planning is advised. While some people get off on the risk of potentially being caught, the majority don't crave exhibitionist status.
One former boyfriend and I waited for a group of boaters to finish up lunch and leave so we could take advantage of having a daylight rendezvous against a massive rock surface in an area flourishing with trees and wildlife.
Sure, the slab of rock was a tad too hard, but it was a thrilling adventure nonetheless.
Choose your own location. Maybe an elevator or stairwell, in the back of the car or a restaurant washroom but, wherever it happens, allow your inner animal to roam wild.
THE ART OF THE QUICKIE:
You don't have to start off in the mood, but you will need to get there in a hurry. Understand that taking an instant gratification approach to sex won't always fly and sometimes you'll need to bust out your best seductive moves through touch, dirty talk, fantasy swapping, deep kissing, or any other technique that has proved successful in the past.
Quickies don't wait for the perfect moment. The moment is in the here and now, wherever and whenever that happens to be.
WHEN IT WORKS:
Let's face it, sometimes we're pulling our hair out trying to get everything done. With all our day-to-day juggling, our sex lives can take a major hit. When you just can't seem to find the time for leisurely lovemaking, a quick-hit may be the solution. Faster than brewing a pot of coffee (heck, you can do the deed while waiting for it to finish), squeezing in a short and sweet session will boost your mood, reduce stress, leave you feeling energized and help you reconnect. And, as an added bonus, there's barely any hard work involved.
BE BRAVE
Having a ravenous rendezvous won't always be perfect. You may not have run a comb through your hair, brushed your teeth, and might be feeling about as sexy as Britney Spears after her head-shaving rampage, but if you're able to allow your self-consciousness to slide for a minute or two (and, as Nike famously says, 'Just do it') it's well worth the pay off.
Note though: Quickies shouldn't replace your regular sex life, they should supplement it.
QUICKIE PITFALLS:
When getting in and out in a hurry, one major missing ingredient is romance. Having a quickie is kind of like diving right in for the chocolate cake before enjoying the main dish, but if you can accept that great romantic gestures and prolonged lead ups aren't essential for sex-on-the-fly, then get down and dirty.
The goal here isn't lovemaking, but even so, a quick fix can be intimate, meaningful and lust-filled (and it will help keep a smile on your face long afterwards)!
http://www.southernjourneys.co.za/
Monday, May 3, 2010
SOLO PARA ADULTOS, Sexo exprés o sexo rápido, por Graciela
Tienes tiempo para un rapidito? 
A pesar de estar demostrado que el buen sexo requiere tiempo, caricias y un trabajo pausado y metódico, el sexo exprés, “quickie” o rapidito puede ser una descarga importante de adrenalina de vez en cuando, sin olvidarnos que puede cumplir más de una fantasía, es una práctica fugaz y placentera que rompe la rutina, una forma de coito urgente, provocado por la aceptación cómplice de una pareja que busca huir del mundo real y se refugia en un lugar, casi siempre poco aconsejado para el efecto, a disfrutar de un apasionado momento espontáneo de placer que se convierte en un recuerdo memorable, y extremadamente erótico.
Lo hacemos en el tiempo que nos queda entre que los niños se duermen y nos da sueno, en la cocina o terraza en la casa, cuando ya estamos listos para salir al trabajo, minutos antes de que alguien llegue, en el auto, oficina o alguna fiesta en casa de amigos; en sitios públicos como baños, cines, ascensores, restoranes, trenes o aviones, que hacen disparar la adrenalina por la posibilidad de ser descubiertos o espiados.
Lo importante es que sea agradable, así sea en media hora como en cinco minutos y con el objetivo de dar y recibir placer sin culpas, sin presiones, dejándose llevar por el deseo, para romper la costumbre y avivar el fuego, con la libertad de estar sumergido en ese momento y gozar el cuerpo utilizando la mayor cantidad de sentidos posibles, dejar a un lado aspectos más racionales y preestablecidos de la sociedad y sin prólogos, sin flores ni cena a la luz de las velas, de hecho poco o nada de romanticismo, tener un instante de sexo exprés o sexo rápido, que no tiene por qué ser frio ni seco, sin orgasmo o sinónimo de insatisfacción, es un producto de las circunstancias y sin excusas para postponerlo que hay que aprender a vivirlo como una forma más de encuentro, atractivo, apasionado y con mucho riesgo.
En los humanos la imaginación, o como usualmente digo, el cerebro, es el arma más potente, es la que enciende el sistema límbico, responsable de ponernos a tono, evaluar las posibilidades que tenemos de conseguir nuestros objetivos y darnos la orden de seguir adelante; la estimulación hace funcionar el hipotálamo, que dispara las hormonas sexuales y, con ellas, la lubrificación de los órganos y la erección o tumefacción, con el consiguiente placer y orgasmo, es decir se pone en activo la respuesta sexual humana con todas sus fases.
“¿Ya está?” Quizá ésta sea una de las preguntas que más teme oír un hombre cuando está en la cama, sin embargo amigos mios un estudio de la Universidad de Penn State, en Pensilvania, aunque hay quien piense que yo lo acabo de inventar, demostro que acuerdo con una encuesta, basada en las respuestas de miles de pacientes, un acto “adecuado” dura de 3 a 7 minutos, uno “deseable” de 7 a 13 minutos, uno “demasiado corto” de 1 a 2 minutos y uno “demasiado largo” de 10 a 30 minutos. Este estudio lo puedes encontrar en infinidad de paginas de internet, todos los sexologos o curiosos en el tema lo comentan.
Según los autores de la investigación, "el objetivo del informe es desterrar los estereotipos sexuales de hombres todo poderosos, penes gigantes y mujeres insaciables que gimen toda la noche".
Los cientificos aseguraron que "La interpretación de un hombre o una mujer de su funcionamiento sexual y el de su pareja está fundada en creencias personales basadas en parte en los mensajes de la sociedad".
Afirman los investigadores que "muchos hombres y mujeres parecen creer en la fantasía de los penes enormes, las erecciones duras como una roca y el acto sexual que dura toda la noche", asi con este estudio sus autores, intentan "disipar dichas fantasías y alentar a hombres y mujeres con datos reales sobre lo que es un acto sexual aceptable", de esta formase podrán evitar decepciones y disfunciones sexuales.
El mayor enemigo del rapidito es el sexo tántrico, una enseñanza basada en el conocimiento budista e hindú, que considera el sexo como una forma de expansión y exploración de la espiritualidad. No hay que apurarse ni mirar las agujas del reloj sino buscar encuentros largos y relajados. Los que lo practican, como Sting, dicen que implica una unión sexual sin culpas en la que se venera el éxtasis y se busca un placer más prolongado a través de los cinco sentidos.
Los hombres que practican el sexo tántrico pueden tener múltiples orgasmos como las mujeres. Velas, aceites, masajes, música, frutas, tiempo y paciencia son algunos de los elementos fundamentales para practicarlo.
http://www.southernjourneys.co.za/
A pesar de estar demostrado que el buen sexo requiere tiempo, caricias y un trabajo pausado y metódico, el sexo exprés, “quickie” o rapidito puede ser una descarga importante de adrenalina de vez en cuando, sin olvidarnos que puede cumplir más de una fantasía, es una práctica fugaz y placentera que rompe la rutina, una forma de coito urgente, provocado por la aceptación cómplice de una pareja que busca huir del mundo real y se refugia en un lugar, casi siempre poco aconsejado para el efecto, a disfrutar de un apasionado momento espontáneo de placer que se convierte en un recuerdo memorable, y extremadamente erótico.
Lo hacemos en el tiempo que nos queda entre que los niños se duermen y nos da sueno, en la cocina o terraza en la casa, cuando ya estamos listos para salir al trabajo, minutos antes de que alguien llegue, en el auto, oficina o alguna fiesta en casa de amigos; en sitios públicos como baños, cines, ascensores, restoranes, trenes o aviones, que hacen disparar la adrenalina por la posibilidad de ser descubiertos o espiados.
Lo importante es que sea agradable, así sea en media hora como en cinco minutos y con el objetivo de dar y recibir placer sin culpas, sin presiones, dejándose llevar por el deseo, para romper la costumbre y avivar el fuego, con la libertad de estar sumergido en ese momento y gozar el cuerpo utilizando la mayor cantidad de sentidos posibles, dejar a un lado aspectos más racionales y preestablecidos de la sociedad y sin prólogos, sin flores ni cena a la luz de las velas, de hecho poco o nada de romanticismo, tener un instante de sexo exprés o sexo rápido, que no tiene por qué ser frio ni seco, sin orgasmo o sinónimo de insatisfacción, es un producto de las circunstancias y sin excusas para postponerlo que hay que aprender a vivirlo como una forma más de encuentro, atractivo, apasionado y con mucho riesgo.
En los humanos la imaginación, o como usualmente digo, el cerebro, es el arma más potente, es la que enciende el sistema límbico, responsable de ponernos a tono, evaluar las posibilidades que tenemos de conseguir nuestros objetivos y darnos la orden de seguir adelante; la estimulación hace funcionar el hipotálamo, que dispara las hormonas sexuales y, con ellas, la lubrificación de los órganos y la erección o tumefacción, con el consiguiente placer y orgasmo, es decir se pone en activo la respuesta sexual humana con todas sus fases.
“¿Ya está?” Quizá ésta sea una de las preguntas que más teme oír un hombre cuando está en la cama, sin embargo amigos mios un estudio de la Universidad de Penn State, en Pensilvania, aunque hay quien piense que yo lo acabo de inventar, demostro que acuerdo con una encuesta, basada en las respuestas de miles de pacientes, un acto “adecuado” dura de 3 a 7 minutos, uno “deseable” de 7 a 13 minutos, uno “demasiado corto” de 1 a 2 minutos y uno “demasiado largo” de 10 a 30 minutos. Este estudio lo puedes encontrar en infinidad de paginas de internet, todos los sexologos o curiosos en el tema lo comentan.
Según los autores de la investigación, "el objetivo del informe es desterrar los estereotipos sexuales de hombres todo poderosos, penes gigantes y mujeres insaciables que gimen toda la noche".Los cientificos aseguraron que "La interpretación de un hombre o una mujer de su funcionamiento sexual y el de su pareja está fundada en creencias personales basadas en parte en los mensajes de la sociedad".
Afirman los investigadores que "muchos hombres y mujeres parecen creer en la fantasía de los penes enormes, las erecciones duras como una roca y el acto sexual que dura toda la noche", asi con este estudio sus autores, intentan "disipar dichas fantasías y alentar a hombres y mujeres con datos reales sobre lo que es un acto sexual aceptable", de esta formase podrán evitar decepciones y disfunciones sexuales.
El mayor enemigo del rapidito es el sexo tántrico, una enseñanza basada en el conocimiento budista e hindú, que considera el sexo como una forma de expansión y exploración de la espiritualidad. No hay que apurarse ni mirar las agujas del reloj sino buscar encuentros largos y relajados. Los que lo practican, como Sting, dicen que implica una unión sexual sin culpas en la que se venera el éxtasis y se busca un placer más prolongado a través de los cinco sentidos.
Los hombres que practican el sexo tántrico pueden tener múltiples orgasmos como las mujeres. Velas, aceites, masajes, música, frutas, tiempo y paciencia son algunos de los elementos fundamentales para practicarlo.
Sin embargo el éxito del sexo rápido es precisamente el factor sorpresa, y la creatividad de improvisar es fundamental; cualquier lugar en cualquier momento puede ser el sitio idóneo teniendo en en cuenta que no es lo mismo el sexo rápido que una penetración apresurada ni confundir un "rapidín" con la eyaculación precoz, porque en ésta no puedes controlar tu eyaculación, en cambio, en el sexo rápido tú tienes el control del tiempo en el que quieres eyacular; de lo que se trata es de tomar por asalto a los deseos y disponerlos a tu antojo, quizá ni siquiera sea el sitio adecuado, pero ¿qué importa? Para alcanzar el éxtasis, debes conseguir un elevado grado de excitación en pocos segundos al acelerar tus pensamientos eróticos y permitir que tu piel se sensibilice lo más rápido posible, tambien se recomienda decirle cosas a tu pareja con tal de que e se estimule y los dos lleguen a excitarse de manera conjunta y fuerte.
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Sunday, May 2, 2010
Quickies-1
Quickie Sex/Quickies have often been referred to as quick sex romps that take less than 30 mins.
Quickie Sex is not a complete sex session. It is a ‘quick sex’ fix to satisfy your sexual hunger when the circumstances are not favorable. So the next time you feel sexually charged up in the middle of a meeting, or during a family get together, you should be prepared to utilize every minute at hand, and any available nook. One of the most important things in a quickie is the spirit to take risks and enjoying the increased pulse. So don’t hesitate to give in to your impulses!
Places for sexual quickies
1) Quickie Sex in a Car
The party has just been over; you are driving her home and the goodbye kiss sets your blood racing through your vessels. Just pull her by the arm and press in a passionate kiss, while you feel her up. Give it a few seconds, as it’ll help you boost up momentum for the rest of your act. Slip your hands into her shirt, as she rips off your shirt, and let your passions soar up. Follow your instincts and wrap it up before the watchman runs to shove you off.
2) Quickie Sex in Kitchen
Is she getting tempted by your careless hugs and kisses while she cooks for your family? Your kitchen allow you stolen moments of passion that might not really satisfy you, but will definitely allow you some ‘quick sex’ moments and fire up your passion. Kitchen shelves, floors and sinks are some of the places that allow you enough space and variety of positions to experiment with. Pick her up on your first throw of passion and place her on the shelf or the sink. You have the tap on your disposal, so be playful too. But take care to switch off the stove.
3) Quickie Sex in Bathroom
Bathroom is one of the few places that allow you a quicky in a closed place, and thus you can manage to remove some of the clothes without giving it a damn. Bathroom gives you enough privacy to make out while others line up in front of the loo
4) Quickie Sex on Office stairs
If the sexy gal at your office is driving you crazy, catch up at the staircase of your office. But make sure it’s on one of the highest floors to avoid embarrassment. Make her arch on the staircase, and take the lead. A better option is to opt for one of the many usually empty conference rooms in your office. Choose a suitable corner that hides you well and make your your switch off the lights.
5) Quickie Sex in Changing rooms in malls
Rave up your passions in the changing room in malls. Slip into the same room and take your time to till you are short of breath. But remember quickies are supposed to live up to their terminology.
The key to successfully managing a quickie is to wear clothes that are easy to remove. Do not wear layers. Heat up yourselves with preludes to sex, because ‘it’ might not even happen. If you are not closed to oral sex, it is perhaps the best option for a quickie sex. There are no hard and fast rules. Figure out what works for you and your girl and burn up the most unexpected places with your sexual fire !
Quickie Sex is not a complete sex session. It is a ‘quick sex’ fix to satisfy your sexual hunger when the circumstances are not favorable. So the next time you feel sexually charged up in the middle of a meeting, or during a family get together, you should be prepared to utilize every minute at hand, and any available nook. One of the most important things in a quickie is the spirit to take risks and enjoying the increased pulse. So don’t hesitate to give in to your impulses!
Places for sexual quickies1) Quickie Sex in a Car
The party has just been over; you are driving her home and the goodbye kiss sets your blood racing through your vessels. Just pull her by the arm and press in a passionate kiss, while you feel her up. Give it a few seconds, as it’ll help you boost up momentum for the rest of your act. Slip your hands into her shirt, as she rips off your shirt, and let your passions soar up. Follow your instincts and wrap it up before the watchman runs to shove you off.
2) Quickie Sex in Kitchen
Is she getting tempted by your careless hugs and kisses while she cooks for your family? Your kitchen allow you stolen moments of passion that might not really satisfy you, but will definitely allow you some ‘quick sex’ moments and fire up your passion. Kitchen shelves, floors and sinks are some of the places that allow you enough space and variety of positions to experiment with. Pick her up on your first throw of passion and place her on the shelf or the sink. You have the tap on your disposal, so be playful too. But take care to switch off the stove.
3) Quickie Sex in Bathroom
Bathroom is one of the few places that allow you a quicky in a closed place, and thus you can manage to remove some of the clothes without giving it a damn. Bathroom gives you enough privacy to make out while others line up in front of the loo
4) Quickie Sex on Office stairs
If the sexy gal at your office is driving you crazy, catch up at the staircase of your office. But make sure it’s on one of the highest floors to avoid embarrassment. Make her arch on the staircase, and take the lead. A better option is to opt for one of the many usually empty conference rooms in your office. Choose a suitable corner that hides you well and make your your switch off the lights.
5) Quickie Sex in Changing rooms in malls
Rave up your passions in the changing room in malls. Slip into the same room and take your time to till you are short of breath. But remember quickies are supposed to live up to their terminology.
The key to successfully managing a quickie is to wear clothes that are easy to remove. Do not wear layers. Heat up yourselves with preludes to sex, because ‘it’ might not even happen. If you are not closed to oral sex, it is perhaps the best option for a quickie sex. There are no hard and fast rules. Figure out what works for you and your girl and burn up the most unexpected places with your sexual fire !
Ausencia, Jorge Luis Borges
Habré de levantar la vasta vida que aún ahora es tu espejo:
cada mañana habré de reconstruirla.
Desde que te alejaste, cuántos lugares se han tornado vanos y sin sentido, iguales a luces en el día.
Tardes que fueron nicho de tu imagen, músicas en que siempre me aguardabas, palabras de aquel tiempo, yo tendré que quebrarlas con mis manos.
¿En qué hondonada esconderé mi alma para que no vea tu ausencia que como un sol terrible, sin ocaso, brilla definitiva y despiadada?
Tu ausencia me rodea como la cuerda a la garganta, el mar al que se hunde.
Poema de Jorge Luis Borges
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